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Daniel Comp's avatar

Actualization is akin to obedience. Jonah learned the hard way. Yielding to providential guidance over ambitious outcomes is self mastery- not possible without humility often born from adversity - as Viktor Frankl wrote.

Moses began his actualzation by setting aside his daily agenda to investigate a burning bush. He might have settled for a viral post and some dopamine.

The contemporary graphic of Maslow's Hierarchy accomodates the parallel pursuit of facets rather than a restrictive a-b-c of needs. Thus our actualization will align with the God of second chances intention, timing and our responsiveness to unction.

Me thinks... at 70.

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Daniel Comp's avatar

BTW... excellent thinking shared generously - reminding me of Biblical writers!

Well done Jeff.

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Jeff Miller's avatar

Thanks Daniel. I appreciate your thoughts on this.

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Lindsay Gower's avatar

I have a concern about #5. "... tend to be detached." (I agree that we all need privacy, perhaps extroverts less than introverts.) But should we be detached? Is it good to be DEtached? That seems unloving. I prefer being Attached -- to God, to friends, to family, to everyone as the needs come by. Or is detached used in the sense of disinterested, meaning we're not judging based on our own bias but on God's Law.

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Jeff Miller's avatar

That’s a great point. If I’m taking it in a positive way, perhaps it’s staying able to “think about your thinking” without judging too much. Feeling emotions without getting caught up in them.

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John Michael's avatar

Did you know that Maslow wanted to add a sixth level before he died, but was persuaded not to do so? Self-transcendence is when you go beyond satisfying self and focus on the spiritual and serving others.

Now that's biblical 😁

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Jeff Miller's avatar

I did not know that! Thanks for sharing. That would be truly the ultimate.

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